We’re given very little guidance on how to choose our partners and tend to leave it to that mysterious force we know as ‘instinct’. However, as divorce statistics show, this way is not going very well for us at all. Perhaps it pays to be more rational, and examine how our instincts operate and why they push us towards some people and away from others.
Perhaps our choices of lover are not as free as we first might think. So much of this major life choice of a partner to share your days with is based on assumptions and subconscious habits. Could we be far more successful in our relationships if we took more time to consider our choices and base them more on our past experiences.
To choose our partners wisely, we need to tease out how certain compulsions to suffering may be playing themselves out in our feelings of attraction.
This insightful video may help you choose more wisely next time.